I have to laugh because our baby counter says "time's up!" (Jeremy actually put in the wrong due date. I was due on Jan. 30, not today) But here I am waiting, and waiting, and waiting - like watching the temperature plug on the turkey at thanksgiving. Pop! It's done, time to eat!
I told my doctor I wasn't interested in going 42 weeks so he agreed to induce next week if I haven't already had him. We did a stress test and the baby is happy as ever with lots of fluid for cushion. They should have done a stress test on me. I am glad I chose to start my leave today to try and rest and relax with minimal interruptions.
We may have to do a cervical softener the night before inducing if my cervix is not ready. If these things do not work, then there is a strong possibility of a C-section. I am hoping that the induction works and everything goes fine. But at this point, I will do anything to make sure this baby comes out healthy.
I have heard all sides of the coin and I am here to tell you that I am not a woman who has a definite "plan" when it comes to birthing. I have been involved in cases where doctors have let women labor too long and it hasn't been a good outcome for the baby. At this point, it is ALL about the health of our son and not me. If that means C-section, that is what it means. I don't think of that as a failure. I am willing to try everything but if it reaches a point to where the baby is stressed, game over.
I have been amazed at what people will say, "you shouldn't have a C-section, it's bad and its major surgery", "you shouldn't use drugs they are bad for you and the baby", "you should stay pregnant as long as you can, it will come naturally". And to all of those people I say, "to each her own". I do not judge other people and their decisions especially when made regarding the life of your baby. Everyone is different. I guess I opened up the box when I chose to share what was going on with me. So we will see what the next check up brings and go from there. Regardless, next week we will be parents.
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It must be a boy thing - Seth was late 7 days, but he turned out to be a pretty mellow kid. Have no idea if that is cause and effect. Hang in there, you'll see your feet in no time. Both of mine were C's Seth was needed - Sydney was because Seth was. I have nothing against drugs. Epidural + no pain = happy mom.
Thanks Kamie & Jer... we like & appreciate your blog update, we need our grandparent's fix of how your both and baby are doing...We love you and will wait! Look forward to seeing the updates thankyou!
AMEN Kamie! To each their own. No judgment here! I'm sending healthy happy thoughts your way!
yeah!!! so exciting, I'm with you though...that's exactly how I feel. Hope all goes well. I'll be thinking about you!
I agree do what's best for you. I do have to say Epidural was a very nice thing for me. I was in labor without it for 8 hours, once I got the epidural it was a much better experience for me, and I wondered why I didn't get it sooner (oh yea they wouldn't let me because they didn't have room in L&D yet) I am thinking of you both, I can't wait to meet this little guy. You will be great parents. Love ya Sara
So exciting! We are so happy for you!
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